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It is important for children to learn the difference between right and wrong at early ages. Punishment is necessary to help them learn this distinction. Agree or disagree? What sort of punishment should parent and teachers be allowed to use? It is said that the best period of time for learning is during childhood. To that end, parents let their children learn sports, foreign languages, art and other life skills from their very early ages. On the other hand, human beings are consistently trying to build a regulate sound society which is way far from cruelty, crimes and misbehaviors, hence thereby trying to raise raising up children who truly can distinguish between right and wrong. The first two people whom the kid meets, deals with and imitates during their his life time are their parents. As a matter of fact they have the main responsibility in rearing the child and introducing good and poor acts to them. Thus, the more control parents have on their own attitude and behavior, the less chance that their kids practice misdeeds. In this rapidly changing world and with all the technologicaly improvements, it is excessively difficult to have full control over the kids comparing to the past. Although adults spare no effort to be next to their beloved ones, but, nowadays, they spend less time with them due to some life complications. Therefore, they entrust kinder gardens and schools where children pass most of their times at. Teachers, lecturers and tutors also play a significant role in showing the right path to the youngsters. With all that those endeavors, still oldsters might be let down and disappointed by children, remarkably when they reach they adolescence and intend to commit misdeeds. To correct them, adults might resort to punishment which, sometimes, turns to physical ones. I believe this is destroying one's s' selfconfidence completely which ends up in being an indecisive person who cannot stand by rely on his their decisions in the future. Psychology suggests replacing punishment with encouragement in case of dealing with an intransigent young person. Instead of taking away objects or opportunities and physical punishment, we should act totally vice versa and work on the guilty person mentally and encourage them her to engage in virtuous practices. Moreover, that the world is a new matter to a two to ten year old kid full of wonders should be considered as an important factor. Through experiencing life and discovering its inaccurate/ unclear aspects, they might make mistakes and do not act as their parents please. Maltreatment would be a drawback in this case. From my point of view, punishments in a way that we know it has diverse affects on people, especially children. A culture should be built so that parents learn how to raise their offsprings and teach them how to differentiate between appropriate and inappropriate without force or applying wrath.